I am going to do my best to change the way I look at my life and the everyday occurrences in it. From really taking time to appreciate the special moments to letting go of all those little irritations that we can either do nothing about at that moment, or are just simply part of everyday living. I think we make life more complicated that in needs to be; at least I KNOW I do. "Stop and smell the roses" is so cliché, yet how many of us really do take time to stop and just enjoy a really great moment. And then take that moment and share it. Don't be greedy and hold it to yourself! Tell someone, even if it's your preschooler, an email to mom, or post it on your facebook status ;). You could even share with your favourite animal friend. I think dogs, cats, horses and other animals living within our family lives comprehend more than we give them credit for... but that's another blog for another day ;).
We spend so much time complaining and sweating "the small stuff". If we have a bad day - spilled coffee down the front of our shirt, forgot to charge the cell phone last night, a traffic jam made us late for work, the power is off so we can't heat up lunch and have to eat it cold, and road construction made the drive home long tonight - then we inevitably take it out on those that mean the most to us. I think we all need a “trouble tree” to hang our frustrations from that day on when we get home. When we meet up with friends how often do we share the great things that happened to us since we last spoke? Or do we bitch about the guy that just cut us off in traffic on the way over? Imagine how good you feel when you put a smile on someone’s face by a kind word or a happy story... wouldn’t it be great to strive to do that all the time?
Every day we wake up and get out of bed to get that cup of coffee... is an ordinary miracle. A closet full of clothes to change into and washer for the one that is soiled, we are so lucky to have such luxuries... just another ordinary miracle. A dead cell phone battery could be a peaceful and quiet drive to work before the stresses of the day begin... just another ordinary miracle. The vehicle we drove to work with means we have transportation and the freedom to go anywhere we want to... just another ordinary miracle. 99.9% of the time we have electricity to run our appliances, our computers, to illuminate our nights and we have food on our plate, cold or warm, the variety is endless... just another ordinary miracle. Construction work on roads, buildings, or even building hamburgers at McDonalds means people have employment, today they will not go hungry... just another ordinary miracle. The long spring rains means that the crops will be strong and healthy... just another ordinary miracle today.
I am going to do my best to stop whining about what a crappy day, week, and month it's been. I want to be the one that my friends walk away from the conversation with a smile not just on their face but in their heart. Not because I did anything extraordinary, but because I shared my ordinary miracles with them and took the time to listen to theirs. I already do my best to not to take for granted that we have a good house to live in and always have food to put on our plate; now I also want to do my best to appreciate, really and truly appreciate, all the ordinary miracles.
I was not in a very good mood when I got up this morning. Not that I was grumpy, but more melancholy at how certain areas of my life have turned out not quite as I had designed or anticipated (Note the emphasised “I”). I wasn't growly at anyone, I didn't yell at my boys, in fact I was more gentle than I normally would be in the mornings. But the beautiful sunshine couldn't do it, the blooming flowers weren't workin' it, even the happy puppy couldn't get me to put a smile on my face.
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." ~unkown